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| Teaching my daughter to play poker | |
What say you? Am I a bad parent for teaching my 10-year-old daughter to play poker?
Some might say yes.
Some might say that I'm teaching my daughter that gambling is OK, at an age when she is very impressionable.
But I don't see it that way.
Play poker, for free thanks to Zynga, teaches many things, including:
- Money management
- Patience (good things come to those who wait...)
- Discipline
- Statistics
- Budgeting
- Calculated risk (risk management)
- How to think (e.g. not to make strong bets out of position)
- Keeping a cool head under pressure
- The perils of overconfidence
- The importance of being bold, when the timing is right
- Practice anything every day and YOU WILL become an expert
- Self-esteem / self-respect: never play crappy cards....NEVER!
- etc. etc. etc.
To those who still don't agree with my position, let me shed some more light on my point of view.
Back in 1979, I was 9 going on 10, and living in NYC. I was @ the UN school (UNIS) on the East River (www.UNIS.org.) A very, VERY good school, but not a good school for me. I had some serious issues with discipline, and my learning suffered. My dad, suffering much resistance from my mother, insisted that I attend an English boarding school in 1981. I went, and I'm glad I did.
In 1979, while I was @ UNIS, my sister, at age 9, attended the very, VERY prestigious Dalton School (www.dalton.org.) Dalton only has The Trinity School (www.trinityschoolnyc.org) as an institutional peer.
At Dalton, my sister was taught about economics and the stock market,
AT AGE 9! She used to tell me about the virtual stock portfolio she had, and how her teachers would monitor her portfolio's performance every day.
Are the equity markets risky?
Yes! Just ask the folks who lost their life savings when General Motors -- a top Fortune 500 company -- collapsed during the peak of the Great Recession.
But if you teach your kids early, they can learn to play the market, and be wealthy at an early age. Yep. Of this I have no doubt.
And that's the difference between a good school, and a great school. A great school will teach kids very serious money lessons very, very early. Why? Because they get it. Teach kids important money lesson as early as possible, and chances are, you won't have to worry about their financial well-being when they grow up. SIMPLE AS THAT.
You don't have to have loads of money, or be a movie star, to teach your kids to be successful in life. Just take the time to teach them all the good stuff you've learned over time, as often as possible. That's the difference between good parenting, as just phoning it in.
Labels: Dalton, education, gambling, life, money, parenting, poker, Trinity, zynga
